Sustainable Emotional Addiction Recovery With Whole-Is-Well™
Stressful life events, anxiety and poor coping strategies may impact risk of addiction. This explains the importance of better understanding how stress works and skill development (e.g., learning stress prevention and tolerance) in addiction treatments. Just as important is learning how to make changes in lifestyle that will help in addiction recovery.
My method is based on therapeutic modality founded in well-documented research from the fields of neuro-cardiology and clinical nutrition. Informed by the heart’s critical role in our overall health, sessions are conducted with simple, user-friendly technology through which clients can access, monitor and take control of their internal states. They learn to recognize chaotic internal states and to shift quickly into greater internal coherence, or more optimal overall functioning, with full access to higher brain functions, and an increased sense of well-being (2).
The science and technology of HeartMath is an integral part of the program. Baseline information is collected as clients begin the program and progress is followed up throughout. Using computer software, we see data that reflects increasing internal coherence as a client progresses through the program. Not only is this evidence of HeartMath’s efficacy, but it reflects the efficacy of the program overall. The results are consistent and dramatic. We see that a person’s internal state becomes more consistently coherent as they progress through the work they do with me.
HeartMath technology allows us access to the continuous and closed conversational loop between the heart and brain as it occurs, in real time. The logistics of a session are simple, gentle and enjoyable. They involve a computer screen, software, coaching and practice.
A non-invasive sensor is worn on the ear, making heart rhythms visible and measurable on a computer screen as they occur. With that feedback, one learns to apply simple techniques to shift heart rhythms from more chaotic states to more orderly and coherent ones. The software used trains what is known as heart rate coherence. Basically, this means that a user learns to anticipate, control and reverse the stress response. Our clients learn HeartMath techniques with us and are given the opportunity to purchase the technology to take home with them so they may continue the practice.
The Goal of HeartMath
The overall goal of HeartMath is to achieve a state of optimal functioning and to return to one quickly as stress and distress arise in daily life. The implications for managing a substance-free life, or one free of traumatic reactions, anxiety and depression, are dramatic. In short, HeartMath allows us to increase our health and overall resilience. We do so by consciously reducing the time we spend in a state of internal chaos. This enables us to establish and maintain a life that is characterized by all the things we hope a life in recovery will be: organized, easily understood, integrated, cohesive, consistent, meaningful and satisfying. It enables us to be resilient.
Resilience is the “capacity to bounce back from adversity” (3). It reflects an intact core, a home base of life-affirming homeostasis. When life’s stress derails us, resilience allows us to return to a core stability again. We return to a state of coherence where there is order, meaning and health. Addiction, depression, anxiety and trauma are catastrophic derailments. Until the core is stable again, we cannot bounce back from even small-scale toppling.
HeartMath practice helps us find the coherent and life-affirming core as we need to. It is a reliable daily navigational tool. The more often we return to the core of coherence, the more coherence occurs across all systems inside us and out. Internally, for example, our immune system and nervous system are fortified, our high performance cognitive abilities are engaged, and our ability to generate hormones and new cells is optimized in a state of coherence. Externally, greater coherence improves our ability to have meaningful and harmonious relationships with less aggressive impulses, more willingness to cooperate, and deeper, more meaningful connections (4,5).
My goal is to train my clients in HeartMath so they may achieve more harmonious emotional states, more synchronized physiology, more optimized activity in higher brain functions, and a greater connection to others in their communities. We have long known that these are valuable recovery milestones and that they lead to a dramatically different quality of abstinence—one that is far more manageable, comfortable and steeped in resilience.
If people continue to practice what they learn in HeartMath sessions, they can significantly reduce their vulnerability to relapse. They can consciously reinforce resiliency daily, many times a day if necessary. This gets directly to the root of relapse dynamics that have haunted us relentlessly. The technology and techniques of HeartMath are revolutionary in relapse prevention; a full and sustainable recovery is possible.
Especially for those who have experienced multiple relapses, this technology offers profound hope. Lingering and residual distress can be addressed as it occurs so that relapse becomes far less of a possibility. For those just starting their recovery efforts, HeartMath is a powerful resource that can help them avoid the revolving rehab door altogether if they continue the practice in everyday life.
The Incoherent Life—Chaos, Distress and Addiction
Far too many people have experienced the pain of an incoherent life. Particularly those who are addicted, and their loved ones, know all too well the profound pain of a chaotic life. When life does not make sense, and has no orderly or predictable structure, purpose or direction, our thoughts are disordered, tortured and non-life affirming. Emotions are either numbed, depleting or tumultuous, and behaviour is impulsive, compulsive, erratic and destructive.
In such distress, whatever we try to build up, no matter how hard we try, will fall into disarray. We abandon our goals and projects, and we repeatedly summon up resolve, only to be pulled back into chaos. It is an insidious and pervasive state that anyone with an addiction can attest to. Eventually the dynamics of such internal chaos will ripple across all realms of one’s life, taking its pain and destruction with it. Our lives always reflect what is happening inside us.
Order and chaos work out in life and occur on many levels—in how well our bodily organs work, if our immunity is high or low, if our emotions are stable or not, and whether our mental processes support a sense of meaning and purpose or leave us lost, afraid, anxious and depressed. Beyond that, we see evidence of our inner worlds in external life. Our internal states are reflected in such things, for example, as the status of our relationships and the overall trajectory of our lives.
Searching for the Coherent Life in Addiction Recovery
Unfortunately, countless people have summoned up great effort to recover, but have not been successful. Some have tried again and again only to return to substance use and a greater state of distress than ever before when their efforts yielded few results. The degree of chaos in one’s life increases exponentially as addiction progresses and relapses recur. It begins to feel impossible to find the good, orderly direction that will lead you out of that distress.
Our field has struggled for years to help people, and it has taken a long time to thoroughly understand the workings of addiction, as well as what is necessary to recover from it. Science, however, is fuelling our efforts every day. Whole Is Well has an Wholistic program, open to innovation, constantly monitoring research, and willing to embrace everything of value that will benefit our clients. A good example of our approach is the integration of new science into our program that is based on some of the most dramatic scientific discoveries of recent years in the field of neuro-cardiology and clinical nutrition.
These researches have proven that we have misunderstood a great deal about the true nature of being human and what it takes to maintain optimal health. It redirects our focus to the connection between emotions and physiology and its critical role in determining whether ours is a life of distress and chaos, or one of order and meaning.
Understanding the Human Heart
The human heart has been called the seat of the soul and the essence of humanity for thousands of years in spirituality, philosophy, poetry and common parlance. There are many examples in our culture, and from around the world, in which metaphorical language describes the human heart as a profound, noble and powerful source of life energy. For example, we identify the heart as the realm of our emotions. We cite loving, compassionate acts as expressions of the heart; wisdom and courage as coming from the heart, and genuine communication as heartfelt. When we are hurt, sad or grief-stricken, we say that our hearts are broken.
The Heart-Brain Connection
We now know that the heart makes its own decisions and informs the brain of them. With a neural network of its own that is much like that of the brain, the heart has the most complex and extensive neural connection to the brain of any system in the body (1). It is very much a sensory and thinking organ, using perception, and both short and long-term memory, as it makes decisions that affect us across all realms of functioning.
Rather than a subordinate to the brain as we’ve long conceptualized, the heart may be better understood as a partner to the brain. In many ways, it is the gatekeeper and choreographer of brain function. This information has dramatic implications for addiction treatment and recovery. It gives us significant access to the underlying disturbances that create chronic distress in addiction and other dis-ease such as trauma, anxiety and depression.
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